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It's BJJ or a birthday party of our three y old girl at neighbour. One remark at our bjj class has been coming to my mind "BJJ is the soft way". Soft way has been referred to aikido and judo, but not so often to bjj - but why not? What if I'll make an effort on trying to use opponents strength to my own penefit?  I know I'm not good enough to pull it all the time, but maybe I can "go with the flow" few times and turn it into my advantage?

Soft way is waiting to be found... maybe next time? We were training an escape from "marcello" half guard. He is the similar technique from reverse side countrol